20demayo Chapter 569 Whoever advocates will benefit
Chapter 569 Whoever advocates will benefit
The main point is that I won’t take advantage of you, and you don’t have to think about taking advantage of me. It’s fair.
Even if some people have obtained a marriage certificate, they still have to sign a property notarization. Whoever owns the property owns it, and whoever earns it also belongs to him.
Many people may scold such lawyers for being completely unkind.
Since you can separate feelings and things so clearly, why do you want to get married?
It is precisely because they are lawyers and handle various divorce cases for clients every day that they have seen the true nature of human beings.
Only those who have seen the dirtiest hearts and the filthiest men and women would resort to such a desperate measure to protect and safeguard their own vital interests.
To put it bluntly, after seeing the dirtiest side of human nature, you will completely lose trust in the people in this society.
Li Mingzhu: "It's still okay for me, at least I haven't fallen into this trap yet, but what should I do about Cheng Lu?
According to your analysis, Cheng Lu has suffered a huge loss, and it is difficult for him to get out of this situation now."
"There are many ways to get out, it just depends on whether Cheng Lu is willing to get out?" He was afraid that Cheng Lu had not given up yet and had not hit the wall.
Look, how many men in later generations would rather work overtime at the company or flirt with female colleagues after get off work in order to escape family responsibilities, rather than go home on time.
After the housework was done, the meals were cooked and the children were taken care of, he went home with a thick face.
As soon as he got home, he complained of being tired and said how busy he was today and that he had no time to rest for a moment.
He also said that he had suffered a lot for this small family, and had worked hard and struggled non-stop.
He said that he needed his partner's understanding and caring, such as taking care of him when he was eating, drinking, defecating, urinating, etc.
Women can learn this too. It all comes down to who can be more ruthless and who knows how to let go.
"Why, Sister Xia, do you have any ideas? For example?"
"For example, you can ask her parents to call and invite her back to live with them for a while. It's better to visit her parents than to serve an old witch who makes things difficult for her.
Your company can also send her out of the city to collect some materials for the report."
"is this okay?"
"Of course I can. There are many ways to do it. All I have to do is find an excuse to pull her out of her current home.
Her husband has so many brothers and sisters, and it wouldn't make a difference if she wasn't included. Let them, his or her own children, take care of him or her. As the saying goes, whoever owns the parents should take care of them.
Why would she, a stranger from the countryside, meddle in the affairs of city people? She was overstepping her authority and was too ignorant.
Whoever's parents are theirs should take care of them. Anyway, her parents-in-law never raised her for a day, so why should she put her face in front of someone else's cold butt.
Her parents raised her to be so outstanding so that she could be herself and love herself, not to make her do stupid things and be someone else's tool to serve that old witch."
Anyway, Xia Ran would not do such stupid things. Some people's hearts could not be warmed.
Anything that can be kept warm does not need to be so laborious.
Anything that requires great effort to reach means that it is beyond your current ability.
This means that this thing is not suitable for you, does not match your ability and energy, and should be thrown away.
It's like what's shown in TV dramas: a kind and selfless heroine who takes care of the family, works hard and never complains, and after going through all kinds of hardships, she finally wins the recognition of her husband's family.
Just take a look at it, don't believe it, and don't learn it.
That's all used to fool fools.
It was set up as an example based on social needs to teach everyone to be selfless and dedicated.
If you think about who the authors and screenwriters are, it will become clear.
Why doesn't he write a few stories about sons-in-law who work hard and go through all kinds of hardships to gain the approval of his father-in-law and mother-in-law?
Isn't that what they do? The real beneficiaries are the men.
With these hostesses as examples, they can openly and legally take advantage of this favorable situation to pass the burden of their original families to their wives.
Let his wife bear the responsibilities and burdens that belong to him as a son.
Let’s publicize this as an example and let everyone praise these women.
Apart from having these women burned on the fire of "filial piety", what else do these "filial" daughters-in-law get?
An aged face? Or an accelerated aging of body functions? Or a body riddled with diseases and incurable illness?
What's more, the elderly are not easy to take care of, let alone sick elderly people.
If this old man is difficult to deal with, has a bad heart and no moral character, then all the fatal bugs are stacked up.
In this situation, whoever serves will cry!
There will be no filial son by the bedside of a long-term patient. Even biological children may not have the patience to take care of these annoying and immoral elderly people, let alone other people's daughters.
Just thinking about it kills you.
As long as Xia Ran puts this matter in her own situation, she estimates that she will send the other party away from the scene where she was taken care of.
To put it bluntly, this is the same reason why the ancients were keen on erecting chastity arches for women.
This thing was made for the people in power at that time to see.
It is a means and a weapon to gain favorable comments from those in power.
In order to better rule and manage, those in power will always set up a few moral models from time to time.
This is to prove one's greatness and how awesome one is.
You see, under my rule, the country enjoys peace and prosperity, and some great deeds or miracles have even taken place in certain places.
What does this mean?
This means that I am the number one emperor in the world and a rare and wise ruler.
To put it bluntly, this is a necessary means of ruling and a method of fooling the people. Just listen to it.
For example, we often hear the phrase "Emperor So-and-so ruled the world with filial piety."
Xia Ran didn't know whether those emperors were filial or not.
Xia Ran only knew that there was only one throne, and everyone was fighting for it to the death.
Can we still expect “a person” to be respectful and filial to his competitors or even former enemies?
Xia Ran just didn't believe it anyway.
To put it bluntly, in these matters, whoever advocates will benefit.
On the surface, it seemed that the emperor ruled the world with filial piety, but in reality he was requiring the officials and common people below to be filial.
In fact, those in power don’t care at all whether officials or ordinary people are filial or not.
It’s just because people who are filial to their parents are more likely to have weaknesses and are more easily controlled by those in power.
This is the reason why this practice is adopted, and everything is to pave the way for better rule.
What's more, many times, the more you advocate or promote something, the more it shows that it cannot be done and you must do the opposite.
For example, when deposit interest rates continue to decline, we must protect our wallets more carefully.
Don't mess around.
Eating and drinking in daily life will not make you poor, and neither will you be poor if you drink.
I'm afraid of messing around. If I mess around, turning a motorcycle into a bicycle is no big deal. I'm just afraid that a rich man will turn into a pessimist.
Think about it, even the higher-ups are advocating this. What does that mean? It means the problem is very serious and the higher-ups have to intervene.