20demayo Chapter 493 I want a strong mother in my first life (1)
Chapter 493 I want a strong mother in my first life (1)
The original owner was a very strong person, even too strong. She didn’t want people to look down upon her at all. She felt that she was not a person who cared about money. All she cared about was dignity, so the divorce was just a divorce certificate. After getting the son, he didn't mention anything else. He didn't ask for child support or property distribution. After the divorce, he returned to his in-laws' house, packed up his things and left.From then on, I had no contact with my ex-husband's family.
Divorce is easy, but there are many things you have to face after divorce.First of all, housing is a big problem.The original owner took the child back to her parents' home, but she didn't even inform her parents in advance about the divorce, for fear that they would persuade her to reconcile but not divorce.After her divorce was over and she returned home, her parents had nothing to do.
The original owner's family lived in a large courtyard, and there were several other families living in it. The relationship between the neighbors was quite harmonious, and there was nothing fancy or bad.Others just felt a little sorry for the divorce of the original owner. They felt that the Jiang family was a good family, and it was a pity that the original owner gave up like this.
When several aunts and sisters-in-law were chatting together, they said to her: "You, his family used to have a hard time, but you could get through it. Why is it that their family is getting better now, but you are divorced?"
"You can't blame me for this. It's because the Jiang family is not a good person. When they were in decline, they begged to marry me. Now that their status has been restored, they look down on ordinary people like us and feel that I am not worthy of them. I will give them a free divorce if I don't. Nanny? Do you have to let them chew on me behind my back? Why should I be so angry!"
"It will be over after you endure it. Who can't live a life without a little bit of anger? Now that you are divorced and have children, how will you live in the future? Even if you look again, you can't find someone with conditions like the Jiang family."
"I'm not looking for it either. I've finally figured it out. Marrying into someone else's family is just a matter of luck. Some people look like dogs. Who knows what they are. Even if he is a good person, he will be lucky. Once his family is nothing, it’s fine if I take care of the kids by myself. Don’t look for someone, don’t get married, and live on your own.”
"What nonsense are you talking about? How old are you, and you will be alone in the future? You, after all, are still young and vigorous. Which daughter-in-law has not been angry with her mother-in-law? It's all like this. When I first got married, I My mother-in-law set rules for me, and I was beaten by her, haven't I got over it now?"
The mother-in-law who said this was a mother-in-law who had been married to a daughter-in-law for many years. She had a generally good personality, but sometimes it was inevitable to find faults. Anyway, her daughter-in-law was sitting behind her with a complicated look on her face.
"Why, we are all human beings, why should I be angry with her! Whoever wants to be angry with her, I won't bear it anyway."
Everyone thought about the original owner's temper that he had been strong on since childhood and would explode at the slightest point, and they turned off their microphones one after another.
She really wants to be strong. She and her brother are the only two children in the family. She wants everything her brother has, and will make trouble if she doesn't get it.So her character is actually not lovable in this compound, but everyone doesn't hate her. After all, she is really an upright person. Except for her bad temper, everything else is good.I told her this today and she didn't lose her temper, which is very rare.
The Luo family's house is not spacious, with a total of three main rooms, a small kitchen, and a small utility room.The original owner lived with her parents when she was a child. When she grew up and wanted to separate rooms, she lived with her mother. Her father and eldest brother lived in one room, leaving one room as the living room.Later, when her eldest brother went to serve in the army, she lived alone in a room.Later, when she got married, the room was packed up and left to her eldest brother.
Now that she's back, her eldest brother hasn't come back, but her parents haven't let her live in that bedroom, and they've sorted out a small utility room for her.
"Your brother will be back with his wife and children soon. You can't let them live in that small room, right?"
The original owner was able to adapt to current affairs to a certain extent, and there was no quarrel or fuss this time.It was agreed with her parents that she would pay living expenses to the family every month, eat with her parents, and help her mother with housework.Her parents had not yet retired and could not help take care of their children, so she sent her son to the nursery in the pipe factory. She took her son with her to work every day and picked him up after get off work.
I lived peacefully like this for half a year.
In the spring of 78, my brother changed his career and came back.He married a Sichuan girl in the southwest, followed the locals and became a rake.As soon as the sister-in-law saw her, she smiled and said, "My sister-in-law is here too. When did she come? How is everything at home? Why didn't my brother-in-law come?"
She did it on purpose.She knew the original owner was divorced.The sister-in-law of the original owner is a person who harms others but does not benefit herself. She just can't see that the original owner can still get help from her parents even if she is divorced.Although the original owner paid for the meal, he didn't have to worry about cooking?And she also occupied the family house!
Regarding her sister-in-law's harassment, no one from her parents or brother spoke for her.At this time, everyone has agreed that the property should be inherited by the son, and the son should provide for the elderly. The parents expect the son to provide for the elderly, and will not offend the son and daughter-in-law for the sake of the daughter. Moreover, they can also see that their son does not make the decision at home.
In order to keep his ears clean, the original owner spent 300 yuan to buy this small utility room, spending all his savings.This was originally a small house built privately, and the price was not cheap.
Originally, the parents said, "If that doesn't work, let's separate the family. Give Kangkang the small room and eat separately in the future, so there won't be any quarrels."
But the sister-in-law refused: "How can a married daughter go back to her parents' family to divide the family property? Besides, when your grandson grows up, won't he have to live in his own room?"
"Then let Kangkang live first. We will wait until the child grows up and needs to live alone."
"No, I don't agree. It's easy to ask a god but hard to give away. If she refuses to move out at that time, can I still throw her out?"
At this time, the original owner proposed to buy the house, and the sister-in-law immediately agreed.She would not let her son live in that small room. It was small, dark and damp. How could she let her son live in it?When the son grows up, he will of course live in the same room as his grandparents. As for where the grandparents live, they have to figure it out on their own.
If I sell my house to my sister-in-law now, my parents-in-law will have no place to live. Will my sister-in-law have the nerve to hang on?
The original owner saw that his sister-in-law was not easy to get along with, so he was thoughtful and asked someone in the courtyard to testify. He put the deal into writing and had his family and witnesses sign it.
Luo's father felt that the original owner should not have done this and made the neighbors laugh.Conflicts within a family should be resolved behind closed doors. Why do siblings need to go to this point?
"Dad, brothers have to settle accounts. It's better to settle it once and for all to avoid disputes in the future."
The sister-in-law doesn't care, she just signs it. After getting the money, she doesn't want this room. She will just make her parents-in-law have no place to live. The rest will depend on how they deal with their daughter and what it has to do with her. ?
After buying this house, the two parties simply separated it once and for all, even eating separately.
The original owner lived with his parents, brother and sister-in-law in the same courtyard, but they were really two families.
However, the sister-in-law's plan failed.Two years later, the courtyard was demolished.The original owner used this small house to get a one-bedroom apartment.At this time, the sales agreement from back then came into play, otherwise, the sister-in-law would not have given her this house.Even with this agreement, she kept nagging everywhere, saying that the original owner had taken advantage of her mother's family.
The original owner did not agree.At that time, she could have bought a bigger house with 300 yuan. However, considering that she was a divorced young woman with a child, it was safer to live in this familiar courtyard, so she was willing to swallow her anger.
Of course she wouldn't feel like she was taking advantage of her parents' family.But everyone felt that she had taken advantage of it.They omitted the middle links and only took the head and tail, and the matter became that she bought a one-bedroom apartment from her parents' house for 300 yuan.Didn't you take advantage?
This is simply too irritating for the original owner who values his integrity above all else!
And the house is not the biggest Waterloo in her life!
While she was busy at work and busy with the trivial matters in life, her son grew up in nursery school, kindergarten, elementary school, junior high school, high school, and university, and he grew into a figure that made her extremely depressed!