Chapter 541 I want a strong mother in my first life (1)
Chapter 541 I want a strong mother in my first life (1)
When Luo Ping came to visit his parents once a month, Luo's mother said to him: "I'm old and can't work anymore. Cooking a big table will be exhausting. You can take us out to eat. After so many years, you He rarely takes us out to eat. Kangkang gives us living expenses every month, and we don’t ask for it from you, so he just takes us out for a meal every month."
Luo Ping nodded repeatedly and took his parents to the small restaurant in front of his house. Zhang Hongying's eyes stopped him but had no effect.At this time, a portion of Kung Pao Chicken only costs 12 yuan, and small cold dishes such as Cold Sansi and Tiger Vegetables only cost 100 or [-] yuan. You can eat well for [-] yuan.
However, no matter how happy the promise was, it was so embarrassing when paying the bill. Luo Ping's pocket was cleaner than his face, and he didn't have a penny.Zhang Hongying was like sitting on a chair. No matter how hard Luo Ping pulled her clothes under the table to ask her to check out, she would not move.
Luo's father and Luo's mother looked at him coldly, showing no intention of helping him out.
In the end, Luo Chao was not thick-skinned enough and took the initiative to ask the waiter to settle the bill.
Zhang Hongying walked out of the restaurant angrily, her whole body almost on fire.
Luo Ping was very embarrassed and said to Luo's mother: "Mom, I usually don't carry money in my pocket. I will definitely bring it with me when I come back next time."
Luo Mu smiled and said, "Okay. Then you can remember it next time."
Luo Ping: "Okay, okay, I remember it."
When she got home, Zhang Hongying was thrashing about at home: "I can't live this life. Why do grandparents care so much? I have to go back to the discount I gave Xiaochao. I don't know how to feel sorry for my grandson. And let us Invite them to dinner, don’t you know we are having a hard time?”
Luo Ping was looked at cryptically by the waiter today. He felt that he was embarrassed and was not angry: "If you can't live, don't live. If you can't live, get divorced. Don't you know why our life is sad? Your parents raised you You have to be filial to me, give me money and things, everything. My parents raised me, shouldn’t I be filial? My parents gave me all their property, so it’s natural for me to be filial. Shouldn’t they? You don’t deserve to have a meal from me anymore? What did your parents give you? Is it worth your heart and soul and our family to be filial to them? "
Zhang Hongying was short of breath: "...I told you when I married you that I would be filial to my parents. You promised. You said filial piety is a good thing."
Luo Ping: "Filial piety is a good thing, but you also have to know when to stop. I didn't know you would steal a house at the time!"
What's the difference between his wife and a domestic thief?
"Luo Ping! How can you say that to me?"
"Then what do you want me to say? Think about it for yourself and calculate how much money you have given to your parents and brother over the years? If this money had not been given out, we would have bought a house for Xiao Chao. As for Do you have the shamelessness to pursue Kangkang's ideas? As for Xiao Chao, don't you have the confidence to fall in love? Look around the capital, who at my level is not better than me? Who has a wife like you? ? You are so filial to your parents, why did you get married in the first place? Can't you just recruit a son-in-law to take care of you? "
The more Luo Ping talked, the angrier he became, and the more he talked, the more he felt that by marrying this wife, he was just looking for trouble for himself.
"Don't talk about the capital, ask around the country, which son-in-law is like me? When I marry you, I will support your family, not only your parents, but also your brother's family. I am a deputy director, even You can’t afford to raise your own son, so you have to let him go to live with his grandparents. Have you never given him his tuition and living expenses? How can you do it when it’s time to pay him and let him go to his grandparents? ?”
Zhang Hongying: "..."
Isn’t it the right thing for them to raise their own grandchildren?
Luo Ping continued to output: "You are filial to your parents, but what about my parents? Do they deserve to be hurt by you and not be able to live an happy life when they grow old? I will accompany you to be filial to your parents. How did you treat my parents? ? Don’t they deserve your filial piety? Just give your money to your parents. I won’t say anything if you take some from me and give it to them. How can you use the old woman’s money to support your parents’ family? What? You didn’t pay any attention to this matter! Even if I were to get divorced now, no one would say I was wrong! "
Zhang Hongying knew that she was wrong and started to make trouble unreasonably: "Luo Ping, you have no conscience! I married you when I was 20 years old, gave you a son, and left my hometown with you, and you did this to me! Now that I am old, don't you look down on me?" You fell in love with me, tell me, do you have a lover outside?"
Luo Ping: "..."
He was going to be so angry that he laughed.
"Which woman is so blind that she could even look at me? What do they want from me? They want me to be poor, they want me to be afraid of their wives, they want me to be useless, they want me to be unfilial, or they want me to be old? Besides, when you married You asked for me, if I had known that you were this kind, I would never have married you."
The place where Luo Ping served as a soldier was next to Zhang Hongying's hometown. The soldiers and civilians were close relatives and often interacted with each other.Zhang Hongying targeted Luo Ping and stalked her. Luo Ping was not a determined and independent person, so he was chased.
Zhang Hongying: "..."
She couldn't answer, so she had to sit on the sofa and cry.I hope Luo Ping will relent first for the sake of family harmony as usual.
But this time she was disappointed. Luo Ping ignored her and went back to the room.
Luo Chao had long expected that his mother would make a fuss when she came home, so he went straight back to his room when he came back.At this moment, he came out and said to her: "Mom, I won't go to my grandparents to ask for money anymore. I'm already working, and the money I earn is enough to spend. I'm embarrassed to save some and still have some left." Go ask for it again.”
He used to ask for it because his mother always said that everything in Lao Luo's family would eventually belong to him. Maybe he subconsciously thought so too, so it was natural for him to take money from his grandma and spend it. Naturally.
But with the recent commotion, he suddenly felt that it didn't seem to be so natural.Thinking that his grandpa still had to bend down to pick up garbage at such an old age, he suddenly felt a little sad.If life really couldn't go on, it would be okay for them to do this, but although their conditions were not bad, their old age was miserable because of their mother and his actions.And his grandma was really like an old feudal lord in the countryside, doing nothing.He had seen it with his own eyes when the family went back to his grandma's house during the holidays.
Every time he went back to his grandma's house, he would see his grandma and grandpa walking around the village in well-dressed clothes. He would advise everyone they met not to work so hard, and he would smile as he listened to people complimenting them for raising a good daughter.And his mother, listening to other people's praises and compliments, also looked proud and confident, as if she was living a good life in the capital, and raising her grandma and uncle was so easy and a piece of cake.
Just for these vain compliments!
In the past, he thought it was natural for his mother to be filial to his grandma, but now that he thinks about it, it doesn't seem to be the case.If his mother works hard and is filial to her parents, then of course there is no problem, but the problem is that after her mother is laid off, she just stays at home. Once she gets used to it, she is too lazy to go out anymore. Anyway, her father works and her grandfather is at home. With the milk subsidy, she can still live her life and still subsidize her grandparents, so why bother working hard anymore.But she doesn't work hard anymore because her elderly grandparents have worked hard for her!
This is wrong!
Therefore, Luo Chao also decided that he had to change.From now on, he will be self-reliant and not burden his grandparents.Naturally, he could no longer help his mother to support his grandma's family.After all, his parents are unreliable, and he has to plan for his future.
Seeing that her son was also "adding insult to injury", Zhang Hongying felt even more sad.
The result of this quarrel was a subtle change in the family status of Zhang Hongying and Luo Ping. In the final analysis, Zhang Hongying's ability to control Luo Ping relied not only on her own aggressiveness but also on Luo Ping's cowardice and inaction.Once Luo Ping started to resist and took real actions, Zhang Hongying's arrogance quickly declined. She was not an independent woman and relied on Luo Ping for everything.
Luo Ping took back his salary card and only paid Zhang Hongying basic living expenses every month, plus basic expenses such as water, electricity, gas and cable TV. He had to keep the rest himself.He can't wait until his son really gets married in the future, and he won't be able to pay a penny.
Looking at his empty savings balance, Luo Ping couldn't help but shake his head and smile bitterly.He has to bear most of the responsibility for how life is like this.
He is really a very selfish person. He just wants to live a comfortable life for himself and does not want to worry about anything. Subconsciously, he is confident and always feels that someone is telling the truth.
He knew that his parents had saved some money. His mother was a master of saving money. In the past, when her income was only a few dozen yuan a month, she could save a thousand or two thousand. It was all dug out from between her teeth. Now the old couple every The monthly salary adds up to almost 2000, so I can save even more.In the past, he thought that when his son got married, the couple would contribute a sum of money, so he turned a blind eye to his wife's behavior.But now it seems that the old couple is heartbroken. When Luo Chao gets married in the future, they may really be able to be ruthless and ignore it.That would be a fool's errand.
Reality forced Luo Ping to change.Perhaps, the so-called raking of ears is just a disguise. Everyone knows that he rakes ears and knows that he does not make decisions at home, which saves him a lot of trouble.But the side effect is that the family is empty.
The consequences of Luo Ping's change made Zhang Hongying blind.Her parents in her hometown could no longer receive the things and money she sent, and they were not afraid of spending money on phone bills. They often kept urging her to give her money as soon as possible.
"Your father and I can't even eat meat."
"The season has changed, doesn't your nephew want to buy some new clothes?"
"It's time for your nephew to pay his tuition..."
"It's the New Year..."
Zhang Hongying initially wanted to delay, but no matter how much she delayed, she still had no money.
Unable to procrastinate any longer, she had to show her cards to her parents: "I have stopped working a long time ago, and the money to buy out my seniority has been given to you. How can I still have money? Xiao Chao is already so old, and the family has no savings at all. He will You want to get married and have children, so why don’t you need money? Dad, Mom, I can’t give you any more money in the future.”
Zhang's parents yelled loudly: "What's the use of raising a loser like you? You have no ability at all. You have no money, why don't you ask Luo Ping for it? Xiaochao has his grandparents, what do you worry about? Your eldest nephew has to pay Our old Zhang family is here to carry on the family lineage, why don’t you care about him? You don’t even care about your parents, why are you so unfilial! The neighbors all praised us for raising a good daughter, but now that you are suddenly like this, what will people think of us? you?"
Zhang Hongying was scolded, so she sold some gold rings and bracelets she had bought before, exchanged them for money and sent them back to her hometown.
But in the future, what else can she sell?
She told Luo Ping and Luo Chao, and they told her: "Just listen to what they say, don't take it to heart, let alone send them any more money. Just hold on, they can't do anything to you." .So far away, they can’t hit you even if they want to.”
But these words were of no use to Zhang Hongying.She was depressed and depressed every day.
After thinking about it, Zhang Hongying felt that she had been a filial daughter for most of her life, how could she give up halfway? 24 heads have been kowtowed, what is left of the last shiver?
So, she applied for a job as a hotel cleaner.I no longer enjoy the happiness at home. I go out to work every day and pay my parents the wages I earn.
Luo Ping: "..."
Luo Chao: "..."
This person is really hopeless.
Hotel cleaning is hard work, and if you arrive late or leave early if your customers are dissatisfied, your wages will be deducted.In order to do this job well, she didn't care much about her family.Meals cannot be cooked on time, and the house cannot be cleaned.Who has been out for a busy day and still has to do housework when he comes back?
Luo Ping and Luo Chao both sighed.In the past, Zhang Hongying didn't go to work. In addition to playing mahjong, she still cooked meals.Now, in order to honor their parents, they are even more completely separated from this little family.
Luo Chao enjoyed the hardship and joked with his father: "If my mother had put the thought of honoring grandma and grandpa into her work, maybe she would have a successful career now."
Luo Ping: "..."
This joke is not funny at all!
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